Well, the first step is to put yourself in a situation where you can meet new people. No matter who you are, you can’t meet anybody if you spend most of the time in your room. Try to build networks and meet all kind of people. Try to improve your social skills.
The second part, after finding girls that you are interested in them, is making the other party interested. First of all be cool and collected. Don’t be desperate and don’t try to make connections just for the sake of getting a girlfriend; for that, you need to be comfortable with yourself and even more comfortable with women. Don’t be afraid of failure, just be nice and helpful and try to find topics of mutual interest and enjoy each other’s company. Don’t try to be someone else, it’s not worth it and things will never work out. At the same time try to be your better self and always improve. Keep yourself fit and well dressed. Try to make people around you laugh, or least make conversations interesting and fun. Be kind, respectful and at the same time firm and assertive. Take her on a date and try to spend more time listening to her and asking questions than talking about yourself and things you are interested in.
Also be patient and don’t set time limits. It’s better to wait for someone who you enjoy being with than just getting into a relationship that is a waste of both of you.
The second part, after finding girls that you are interested in them, is making the other party interested. First of all be cool and collected. Don’t be desperate and don’t try to make connections just for the sake of getting a girlfriend; for that, you need to be comfortable with yourself and even more comfortable with women. Don’t be afraid of failure, just be nice and helpful and try to find topics of mutual interest and enjoy each other’s company. Don’t try to be someone else, it’s not worth it and things will never work out. At the same time try to be your better self and always improve. Keep yourself fit and well dressed. Try to make people around you laugh, or least make conversations interesting and fun. Be kind, respectful and at the same time firm and assertive. Take her on a date and try to spend more time listening to her and asking questions than talking about yourself and things you are interested in.
Also be patient and don’t set time limits. It’s better to wait for someone who you enjoy being with than just getting into a relationship that is a waste of both of you.