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Can you be friends with an ex after a serious relationship?

We have the same friends. Cutting him out feels dramatic. Staying close feels like limbo.

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How do I leave a relationship that is not abusive but is wrong?

Nobody cheated. We are kind. I am still sure this is not my life. I feel cruel.

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Ask Men Dating

How should I text after a good first date?

I always either wait too long and look cold or text immediately and feel desperate.

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Anxious vs avoidant — can that pairing work in dating?

I chase, he withdraws, we both think the other is the problem.

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What does it mean when she says she needs space?

We were fine, then 'I need space.' I keep asking what I did. That seems to make it worse.

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Ask Women Attachment & Anxiety

Why do I need constant reassurance in relationships?

If he does not say it, I do not believe it, even when he is kind.

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Ask Women Dating

Do I tell someone I am dating that I have kids?

I wait because I do not want to be filtered out. Then I feel like I hid something.

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Why do I chase people who are emotionally unavailable?

If they are easy, I get bored. If they are half-in, I am obsessed.

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How do I know if this is a situationship or a relationship?

We sleep together, talk daily, and have no name. I asked once and got 'why label it?'

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How do I become more securely attached while dating?

I know my pattern. I still do it. I want a method, not a label.

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Ask Men Dating

Should I date someone who just got out of a long relationship?

She left a five-year thing two months ago. We have chemistry. I do not want to be the rebound and I do not want to be a coward.

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Ask Both Intimacy

How do we handle a desire mismatch?

I want sex twice a week. He wants it rarely. I feel rejected. He feels hunted.