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Why does she text me first and then not reply?
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Is talking about an ex a red flag?
Allow some context instead of a ban on the word “ex.” If someone says, “My ex and I used to live in Denver,” while you're discussing moving, that's ordinary biography. You don't…
Start with a question: after hearing the story, do you understand your date better, or do you feel drafted into a contest? There's a difference between “That relationship taught me I need…
What does taking it slow mean in dating?
Don't agree to a phrase when you need an arrangement. “Let's take it slow” can sound reasonable while leaving each person imagining a different relationship. One person thinks it means seeing each…
Make room for liking someone and still wanting time. Attraction can arrive long before trust. A person may enjoy kissing you, then decline an overnight visit because they haven't decided how safe…
Should you return gifts after a breakup?
Don't turn the gift exchange into the final round of the breakup. Returning every T-shirt, coffee mug, and concert souvenir can feel like a powerful statement while creating another week of arguments…
The view here is that a gift shouldn't become a bill when a relationship ends. Someone may feel rejected and want symbols of the relationship back. That feeling doesn't create an emotional…
How to divide chores fairly?
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Look first at who gets to switch off. Two people can each have five chores and still have wildly different workloads. Taking the trash out once a week isn't equivalent to deciding…
How to express feelings without blaming?
Start with a complaint the other person can actually act on. “You don't care about me” is difficult to answer without a fight about whether you're allowed to feel it. “We agreed…
Don't confuse kindness with making yourself so small that the problem disappears. “Sorry, this is probably stupid, and you're really busy” can hide the actual issue before you've said it. You can…
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