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Ask Women Breakups

Can you be friends with an ex after a serious relationship?

We have the same friends. Cutting him out feels dramatic. Staying close feels like limbo.

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How do I leave a relationship that is not abusive but is wrong?

Nobody cheated. We are kind. I am still sure this is not my life. I feel cruel.

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Ask Both Red Flags

What are red flags in the first month of dating?

I keep missing things that later look obvious. What is actually worth walking from early?

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Ask Women Communication

How do I ask for more effort without sounding like I am begging?

I have asked nicely, then not nicely. He calls both nagging.

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Ask Women Breakups

Should I text my ex or leave it alone?

I have a 'harmless' reason. I also know I want a door to open.

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Ask Women Red Flags

Why do I stay in relationships that hurt me?

I can describe the cycle clearly and I still go back. I am tired of calling it love.

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Ask Men Communication

Why do I go silent when I am upset?

I know it hurts her. I still cannot speak when I am angry. I am not trying to punish.

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How do I know if I miss them or just the routine?

Sunday mornings hurt. I cannot tell if it is her or the coffee-for-two habit.

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Ask Both Red Flags

How do I tell trauma bonding from chemistry?

The highs are huge. The crashes are worse. People say that is passion. I am not sure.

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Ask Both Communication

What do healthy boundaries sound like in a relationship?

I either say nothing or I explode. I want sentences I can actually use.

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Ask Women Red Flags

Is my relationship toxic or am I overreacting?

Friends say it is bad. He says I am dramatic. I cannot tell which voice is mine.

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Ask Women Attachment & Anxiety

Why do I panic when someone texts less?

A two-hour gap and I am sure it is over. I hate this about myself.