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How should I text after a good first date?
I always either wait too long and look cold or text immediately and feel desperate.
What does it mean when she says she needs space?
We were fine, then 'I need space.' I keep asking what I did. That seems to make it worse.
Should I date someone who just got out of a long relationship?
She left a five-year thing two months ago. We have chemistry. I do not want to be the rebound and I do not want to be a coward.
What are signs someone is hiding something from you?
Phone face-down, new passwords, stories that do not match. I feel paranoid.
Why do I go silent when I am upset?
I know it hurts her. I still cannot speak when I am angry. I am not trying to punish.
Why do I pull away when someone gets close to me?
I want a relationship until it is real, then I find flaws and vanish.
How do I talk about a dry spell without making it worse?
It has been months. I am scared that naming it will make her feel broken.
How do I say I want to try something new in bed?
I am afraid she will think I am unsatisfied. I am not. I am curious.
Do no-contact rules actually help after a breakup?
People say 30 days. I want to be mature and still be friends.
Do women ever actually approach first?
I hear “just talk to her,” but in bars and on apps it still feels like men are expected to make the first move. Do women ever start…
What do men mean when they say they have a “type”?
Guys talk about types like it is a pizza topping. Is it looks, personality, or a polite way of saying I am not it?
She doesn’t feel the same way. What now?
I am all in. She says she cares but not like that. I keep hoping time will fix it.