Asked by Man, 36
I lied about money. She stayed. I want a date when this is over. She says she does not know.
There is no date. Trust returns as a side effect of boring honesty, not as a certificate. Asking 'are we good yet' is another demand she manage your guilt. You do the transparent thing until it is dull. If you need a finish line, you want relief more than repair.
The injured person sets the pace. A calendar would be kinder, and also fake. We watch whether the lie was a one-off or a skill. If new small lies show up, the clock resets. You cannot love us into amnesia. You can be tedious and true.
Agree what transparency looks like this month. Review it. Do not ask her to pronounce you healed.
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