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Should I text my ex or leave it alone?
Asked by Woman, 24
I have a 'harmless' reason. I also know I want a door to open.
Men’s answer
From the men
If you have to put harmless in quotes, leave it. An ex text is rarely about the object you forgot. It is a test of whether the thread still exists. If they wanted the thread, they have a phone too. Use the energy on a person who is not a closed chapter you keep rereading.
Women’s answer
From the women
The harmless reason is a costume. You can be honest with yourself even if you never send it. Write the text. Do not send it. See how much of it was a plea. That is the information. Sending it usually costs you a week of waiting for a reply that cannot satisfy you.
What to do next
Write it in notes. Wait 48 hours. If it is still only about a charger, have a friend ask. If it is about the door, delete it.
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