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What are red flags in the first month of dating?
I keep missing things that later look obvious. What is actually worth walking from early?
How do I ask for more effort without sounding like I am begging?
I have asked nicely, then not nicely. He calls both nagging.
Should I text my ex or leave it alone?
I have a 'harmless' reason. I also know I want a door to open.
Why do I stay in relationships that hurt me?
I can describe the cycle clearly and I still go back. I am tired of calling it love.
Why do I go silent when I am upset?
I know it hurts her. I still cannot speak when I am angry. I am not trying to punish.
How do I know if I miss them or just the routine?
Sunday mornings hurt. I cannot tell if it is her or the coffee-for-two habit.
How do I tell trauma bonding from chemistry?
The highs are huge. The crashes are worse. People say that is passion. I am not sure.
What do healthy boundaries sound like in a relationship?
I either say nothing or I explode. I want sentences I can actually use.
Is my relationship toxic or am I overreacting?
Friends say it is bad. He says I am dramatic. I cannot tell which voice is mine.
Why do I panic when someone texts less?
A two-hour gap and I am sure it is over. I hate this about myself.
Are they busy or losing interest after three good dates?
Texts went from paragraphs to 'ha yeah.' I do not want to chase. I also do not want to ghost myself.
Why do I pull away when someone gets close to me?
I want a relationship until it is real, then I find flaws and vanish.