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How do I tell trauma bonding from chemistry?
The highs are huge. The crashes are worse. People say that is passion. I am not sure.
What do healthy boundaries sound like in a relationship?
I either say nothing or I explode. I want sentences I can actually use.
Do women ever actually approach first?
I hear “just talk to her,” but in bars and on apps it still feels like men are expected to make the first move. Do women ever start…
Can I trust him again after he cheated?
It was not a one-night thing. I found out because I looked at his phone. He says it is over and he wants to rebuild. I don’t know…
What do men mean when they say they have a “type”?
Guys talk about types like it is a pizza topping. Is it looks, personality, or a polite way of saying I am not it?
How do I set a boundary without starting a fight?
Every time I say what I need, it turns into a courtroom. I either explode or shut up.
He doesn’t call anymore. Distance or loss of interest?
We used to talk every night. Now it is a text at 11pm. He says work is crazy. I feel insane for caring.
Why do I get attached so fast?
Three good dates and I am already imagining a life. Then I scare people off or I get crushed when they go quiet.
What counts as intimacy if it is not sex?
He says we are intimate because we sleep together. I feel lonely in the same bed.
She doesn’t feel the same way. What now?
I am all in. She says she cares but not like that. I keep hoping time will fix it.