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How long does it take to rebuild trust after lying?
I lied about money. She stayed. I want a date when this is over. She says she does not know.
What if I want affection and they only want sex?
Cuddling happens as a prelude. Afterward he rolls over. I feel used even when I said yes.
Can a relationship recover after emotional cheating?
It was not sex. It was a secret other intimacy. He says that means it 'does not count.'
How do I talk about a dry spell without making it worse?
It has been months. I am scared that naming it will make her feel broken.
What are signs someone is hiding something from you?
Phone face-down, new passwords, stories that do not match. I feel paranoid.
Is it normal that we never have sex anymore after kids?
I love my kids. I miss my wife. I feel like a monster for wanting something.
How do I stop checking my partner’s phone?
I find things, then I cannot stop. It is ruining us and I still do it.
How do I say I want to try something new in bed?
I am afraid she will think I am unsatisfied. I am not. I am curious.
How do I know if I am being gaslit?
After every argument I apologize, even when I started with a fact. I leave conversations more confused than I entered.
Should I stay after cheating if it happened once?
One night, full confession, lots of tears. Everyone has an opinion.
How do I get over someone I still love?
The relationship ended. The wanting did not. I keep looking at their stories.
Is this love bombing or genuine interest?
He planned a trip after two dates and talks about forever. It feels amazing and slightly like a trap.